Becoming Whole
Relationships and sexuality are areas of life that can be beautiful or confusing, life-giving, or painful. Becoming Whole is a conversational podcast for men, women, and families seeking to draw nearer to Jesus as they navigate topics like sexual integrity, relational healing, spiritual health, and so much more.
Episodes
357 episodes
7 Forms of Rest: Spiritual, Social, Sensory, Creative
Ever feel completely exhausted despite getting enough sleep? There's a reason for that—and it goes beyond physical fatigue. In this second episode on rest, we dive deep into four often-overlooked forms of restoration that are essential for whol...
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Season 3
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Episode 30
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34:31
7 Forms of Rest: Physical, Mental, Emotional
What if the missing piece in your recovery journey isn't more discipline or accountability, but specific kinds of rest you've been overlooking? Dr. Sondra Dalton-Smith's concept of "sacred rest" offers a framework for understanding...
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Season 3
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Episode 29
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38:52
Recovery Fatigue
Recovery fatigue is a rarely discussed but a common experience for men trying to rebuild after betrayal. What happens when all the meetings, check-ins, and recovery work start to feel overwhelming or—worse yet—like they're not making a differen...
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Season 3
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Episode 28
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1:04:07
Acting In
Caught between exploding and imploding? You're not alone. This episode uncovers the hidden connection between acting out (through behaviors like porn, alcohol, or overworking) and acting in (through withdrawal, passive-aggression, and emotional...
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Season 3
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Episode 27
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36:06
Physical Disciplines Part 2
What if your recovery from unwanted sexual behaviors could be strengthened by simple physical practices you've overlooked? In this episode, we dive into often-forgotten physical disciplines that transform spiritual recovery. From breathing tech...
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Season 3
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Episode 26
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30:04
Physical Disciplines Part 1
Have you ever considered that your body might be your greatest ally—not your enemy—in recovery from unwanted sexual behaviors? Many of us approach healing as primarily spiritual or psychological, overlooking the role our physical existence play...
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Season 3
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Episode 25
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40:51
The Man Within
What if the solution to overcoming pornography addiction isn't found in behavior modification but in healing your heart? In this episode, Sathiya Sam shares how addressing the root causes of unwanted sexual behavior leads to genuine freedom tha...
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Season 3
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Episode 24
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52:32
You Need a Rule of Life Part 2
The world has a plan for your formation—are you consciously designing your counter-strategy? In this episode, we continue our conversation about developing a "rule of life" that helps us resist the powerful current of cultural formation pulling...
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Season 3
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Episode 23
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32:30
You Need a Rule of Life Part 1
Freedom doesn't happen by accident. Whether we realize it or not, our daily routines, habits, and patterns are shaping who we're becoming—either drawing us deeper into wholeness or reinforcing cycles of brokenness.The practice of a "rul...
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Season 3
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Episode 22
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29:43
Same Sex Attraction Part 3 with Elizabeth Woning
What happens when a seminary-educated lesbian pastor encounters the Holy Spirit in an unexpected way? Elizabeth Woning never planned to question her gay identity or theology. As a gay-affirming Presbyterian minister, she believed the church nee...
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Season 3
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Episode 21
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50:55
What Your Sexual Temptations Are Actually Telling You with Marco Cassanova
What if your sexual struggles aren't merely obstacles to overcome but doorways to deeper healing? In this episode we welcome our guest Marco Casanova as he shares his story and journey of wholeness. As Associate Director of Desert ...
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Season 3
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Episode 20
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1:01:40
Beyond Same-Sex Attraction: Finding Wholeness in Christ
What does it mean to be truly yourself while following Jesus? Kyle Bowman's transformative journey from embracing a same-sex lifestyle for eleven years to discovering her authentic identity in Christ challenges our assumptions about sexuality, ...
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Season 3
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Episode 19
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41:51
Facing the Storms in Our Sexual Brokenness Like a Buffalo
What if the very storms you're desperately trying to outrun are actually the pathway to your healing? Sexual brokenness, unwanted desires, betrayal, and shame can feel like overwhelming tempests in our lives. Many of us respond by ...
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Season 3
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Episode 18
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22:37
Seeing through the eyes of Jesus Part 3
What has your body been trying to tell you all along? In this profound conclusion to our three-part series, we explore how our physical bodies, specifically as male and female—communicate God's most essential nature: love that gives itself away...
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Season 3
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Episode 17
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36:23
Seeing through the eyes of Jesus Part 2
What if the way Jesus saw people wasn't exceptional, but exemplary? What if His vision—His ability to perceive beyond surface appearances—is actually how we're designed to see?This episode continues in the importance to see people as wh...
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Season 3
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Episode 16
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44:59
Seeing Through the Eyes of Jesus
Have you ever wondered if freedom from sexual struggles is actually possible? This episode challenges the common belief that lust is simply "a lifelong battle" that Christians must endure.Starting with the question—what happens when we ...
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Season 3
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Episode 15
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33:35
Reclaiming God's Design for Sexuality in a Pornified World
The digital world has transformed parenting in profound ways, creating unprecedented challenges for families navigating sexuality and technology. In this eye-opening conversation, Jacob Volk, Co-Executive Director of Into the Light Ministries, ...
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Season 3
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Episode 14
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46:04
Marriage Recovery Part 2 with The Raabsmiths
In this episode of Becoming Whole, we sit down with Matthew and Joanna RaabSmith to discuss their personal journey of recovering from marital betrayal and the work they do with other couples to rebuild intimacy. They share their unique story of...
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Season 3
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Episode 13
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45:06
Marriage Recovery: How Full Therapeutic Disclosure Heals Relationships
Imagine driving past a house that looks a bit off, maybe the porch is sagging, or the house seems to lean. That’s what happens when a foundation is compromised, and you know, relationships can face the same troubles, especially after betrayal. ...
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Season 3
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Episode 12
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41:09
Singleness Part 2: with Connally Gilliam
Singleness often exists in the shadows of our cultural conversation, especially in faith communities where marriage is frequently celebrated as the ultimate destination. But what if your life's unexpected path includes long-term singleness? How...
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Season 3
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Episode 11
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33:16
Embracing Singleness
In this episode, Josh and Kyle Bowman, the Director of Coaches at Regen, dive deep into the experiences and challenges faced by singles, especially within the Christian community. They discuss the unique loneliness singles may feel, particularl...
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Season 3
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Episode 10
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48:05
Remember the body of Jesus
The episode dives into the necessity of community in personal growth and healing. We discuss how God created us for relationships and the importance of the church in supporting individual journeys.• Understanding the connection between ...
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Season 3
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Episode 9
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43:15
Remember: God's Blueprint to Wholeness
Restoring the Heart, Mind, Body, and SoulJoin James, director of projects and spiritual coach at Regeneration, in this episode of the Remember series. We discuss how Jesus knows and remembers who we were created to be and explore the tr...
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31:03
Remember: You are what you Forget
Healing by Remembering: Overcoming Trauma and SinJoin us today as we explore the importance of remembering our personal pain and triumphs, focusing on how past trauma and unwanted behaviors are connected. We will look at the Israelites ...
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Season 3
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Episode 9
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36:51
Remember 2 - Stones in the River
In this episode, James, a spiritual coach, and Kyle Bowman, Director of Ministry discuss the profound impact of remembering God on growing in sexual integrity. They explore the importance of remembering one's origins, the transformational power...
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Season 3
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Episode 8
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35:33